Sometimes we all face the fact that we don’t know for sure how this or that person feels, and whether he or she loves you or not. Of course, the best way to find out is to hear sincere confessions. Surely you can rely on some spiritual rituals, but you can’t rely on spirits, can you? Unfortunately, there are one hundred percent reliable methods to tell for sure whether he or she loves you or not. But it doesn’t mean that you can’t make more or less precise assumptions. In this article, we are going to help you with this important matter.
First of all, you must ask yourself why you are seeking an answer to this question. You see, when people are unrequitedly in love, they unconsciously search for pieces of evidence that the object of their love also feels the same towards them. If this is your case, if among the two of you, you are the one who always searches for contact, then chances are high that he or she doesn’t love you. At least, not the way how you would like to be loved. This particularly frequently happens with those who are dreaming of finding love after 60. But what if this is not the case with you? What if you only feel some small sympathy, how to know that he or she won’t reject you?
There are signs that with a larger degree of preciseness can tell whether this person loves you or not. Remember, none of those signs actually mean anything by itself. You can only apply them as a combination. Otherwise, the results of your small quiz won’t be precise.
1. They want to spend time with you
When people are in love, they always want to spend more time with the object of their love. Remember, people want to be only with those whom they like or love. If this person constantly searches for excuses to spend more time with you, then he or she definitely is interested in you. For example, they may start asking for your help too often, or stay late at work just to be with you. People in love are very creative and can find many various reasons, but the main idea will always be the same. They want to be with you.
2. The small touches
Did you know that even more than being with the object of our love, we want to touch him or her? Pay attention to their behavior friends don’t usually touch each other without any reason. If he or she has feelings for you, you will also notice their desire to touch you. For example, he or she may put their hand on your hand, or on your shoulder, or “accidentally” hold your hand.
3. They express indifference
When we are not sure whether the object of our love loves us or not, we unintentionally begin to apply our defense mechanism. Our brains begin to think: “Okay, I love this person, but I don’t know if he or she loves me back. But I do know that I hate to be refused. So, what should I do? Perfect! I will pretend that I actually don’t really care about this person, and I will be showing my indifference as often as I can!”
4. He or she is self-sacrificial
People in love are gentle, caring, attentive, and helpful. A loving person is ready to forget about themselves for the sake of their beloved person. Sometimes this is bad for their appetite. Don’t laugh, almost all people who are hopelessly in love, eat very poorly. Therefore, they lose weight, turn pale, and suffer from insomnia.
5. They often stare at you
If he or she is in love with you, they won’t be able to deal with the desire to know more about you. Thus, they will have an irresistible desire to look at you. If you catch his or her eyes on you more than four times an hour, then he or she clearly wants something from you. Perhaps you just look weird, or maybe they just discussed you with someone else, or possibly they love you with all their hearts.